Most of us experience some interactions with other people where we feel like a victim of the other person; we let them take the lead and have the power in the interaction. This can be over the long term or short. We allow ourselves to be “at-affect” of others.
Read MoreOur minds are constantly making up stories about what things mean. Particularly about what other people’s behavior means about us. What other people do is rarely about us, it is about them.
Read MoreApproaching life through the Inquiry Method provides a basic place to begin with any issue that may arise. We are tempted to say, “This person did this” or “They shouldn’t have done that,” or we try to explain how or why it is not about us. We are tempted to explain or defend ourselves.
Read MoreI confess I haven’t read the whole book sent to me by a client but I love the premise of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D.
Read MoreNot possible. How would it change your perspective if you walked through life knowing that you cannot change anyone else?
Read MoreInquiry Method is about getting in alignment with truth. Sometimes it is an objective truth, the truth about “what is,” and we will never be effective if we are resisting “what is” (that which will not change).
Read MoreWhat if what you want most is possible? For a moment give yourself the possibility…What do you want most?
Read MoreA high percentage of all songs are love songs. Many of us attribute this to the importance of romance in our lives. However, I have begun to see this in a different light.
Read MoreInquiry Method™ is a life perspective and also a tool for interacting with others. Interactions with others from a perspective of inquiry create great relationships.
Read MoreMany people are surprised when I advocate selfishness and they struggle with this concept. I think it’s time for a clarification.
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