What is your reaction to being controlled?I can always detect control, because when my system recognizes control, I resist. It may be subtle, but I can feel the beginning of a sense of resistance. To free myself from this resistance to being controlled, I simply give myself a choice about what I want to do. How can you tell if you are being controlling? You will feel or experience resistance from the other person. This is 100% effective.
Read MoreI confess I haven’t read the whole book sent to me by a client but I love the premise of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D.
Read MoreInquiry Method is about getting in alignment with truth. Sometimes it is an objective truth, the truth about “what is,” and we will never be effective if we are resisting “what is” (that which will not change).
Read MoreWhat if what you want most is possible? For a moment give yourself the possibility…What do you want most?
Read MoreI call Inquiry Method a no-tactics approach. Often times, when we approach a situation we are looking to get a result and we “scheme” how to get it.
Read MoreIn many businesses and professional offices there is a division of some kind. In a medical or dental office it can be between back (treatment) and front (administration).
Read MoreWhen I need, I am looking to get what I “need” from a situation. As a leader, maybe I need reassurance, safety, commitment, information, etc. But do you really want your employees focused on meeting your needs?
Read MoreThe first step for a person in exploring the art of Inquiry Leadership is to do a self-assessment. This is not easy. Many successful people have become successful because of their ability to push distractions aside...
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