What it Means to Be Seen - Part I

 

Hi everyone, it's Raven here!

This weeks blog is a clip that was taken from one of our Membership Calls. Our Membership Calls occur each week and are a great way to connect with others in the community, learn more about inquiry method, and receive coaching and insight from Kyle. If you are not a member yet and are interested in joining, you can check out our website lifeataltitude.com/membership-login.

One thing that I really love about the Membership Calls is that they are a safe space where I am able to be vulnerable and be and feel seen in my wholeness.

On this particular Member's Call, Kyle talked a lot about what it means to really be seen and become vulnerable. The entire monologue was over 10 minutes so I've split it into two sections. I will be posting the second section next week so stay tuned!

Key Take-Aways:

  • Being seen is something we all desire

  • Learning to be vulnerable allows us to receive meaningful attention

    • Attention for me versus attention to my strategy of being seen

  • When we are really seen, loved, and accepted in our wholeness it is deeply satisfying

  • When we understand the story behind something, there's nothing that we cannot put love in

  • When we recognize our motivations, we understand why we behave a certain way

  • When we are seen, we get filled up and are able to release strategies that we have created to be seen

  • As we become vulnerable, we learn that our strategies that we created do not serve us and we do not have to hold onto them

Do you have a burning question for Kyle? We would love to address your question on our next video blog. Send your topic or questions to peggy@inquirymethod.com